Save Lando

jury duty came and went without much ado. i was never selected, so i had to settle for sitting in a cramped, overheated melting pot of a room for around nine hours. early on, i was under the impression that were i not selected, i would be returning the following day for more wacky oklahoma county hijinks. not the case, fortunately. there was a few things that chapped me. people who couldn’t read, or follow directions. people who insisted on talking loudly on their cells (mainly the real estate skank three people over. fake tan and bleached hair? what year is it?). and people who went about kissing anyones ass they thought could let them go home early. “keep me as long as you want judge!” yeah right, douchebag.

i was able to eat lunch downtown with Loops for the first time. turns out, she works a building or two away from my imagined prison. ate at some diner, and i was super uncomfy with the sheer amount of people i had to see, let alone deal with. later in the day, i dropped by the Thunder team store and brought home a hat. terribly exciting.

with the reintroduction of some past faces (mentioned in the last post and who strangely enough, i have barely any interest in talking to), a few memories came with them. pretty sure i never wrote about this one before. a long time ago, i was ‘ate up’ over this girl i had met online (i know, shut it). this was back in the early 90’s, when bulletin boards were the only thing going on for lonely kids behind a screen. anyway, long story short, friends and penpals for years. met once, nothing happened, i was crushed. i spent weeks holed up, torturing myself over it. what i did wrong, etc. months later, i found a notebook belonging to my best friend at the time.

in it read alot of things, featuring  “i think i like her, he doesn’t deserve her, he’s just a fat boy”.   i really didn’t know how to react to it. that sort of betrayal wasn’t something i’d ever really dealt with. i’m sure everyone has to deal with things similar in their life. be it with friends or spouses or coworkers. it’s likely why i, anymore, seem to keep friends at an arms length (or further). this person periodically shows up in my life, trying to keep what little friendship is there, then dissapears for a couple of years. normally, i would just shoe them off, and be done with it. this case is a little different in that he has issues, big ones, similar to that of a friend that ended up killing himself a few years back (for those of you that havent archived). so i atlas it, and hope.

nothing really poignant about it, just a moment revisited recently. ah memories. gotta be a pill or something to fix those.and after writing something so personal like that (cliff’s notes or not), i always wonder who’s reading this crap. or who would even want to? i’d love to chalk it all up to catharsis, but really how cathartic will this end up being? sometimes it seems so pointless. bah. maybe i just need some sleep.

i promise more stories of idiocy to come, including the kid at my work that kind of likes being called ‘Frodo’.

from april:

when having a conversation with a newer co-worker on the subject of current events, i’ve made my decision that the younger generation is completely fucked. not that i hadn’t already decided it, but it was just a little gravy on top of the mashed potatoes residing inside their heads. the conversation was about rihanna and chris brown, and that now chris brown’s career is ruined. i concurred for the most part, but for different reasons.

his argument was that chris browns career was ruined because he now has herpes, and not because he beat the shit out of his lady for all the world to see. this statement blew my mind, and now i wonder how many people think the same thing. of course, i could be in the wrong here, perhaps that herpes is a bigger deal to the generation serving as target audiences for both respective artists. i can’t say that i was a big fan of either before any of this, and really can’t say the same now. can’t even say why i thought this was noteworthy, maybe it’s just a footnote on how out of touch i am…

from may:

and of course that can only get worse. my boss at work has decided it better that i work later in the day. so not only do i get to keep the same shitty days off, but i get to barely see Loops at all. the good news just keeps a pouring in.

for those of you concerned about said Woman, she’s doing fine as far as she lets on. she insists on working and not writing. her birthday was May 12th, and i gave her the swine flu. caring is sharing. i came to that decision purely out of the inability to grant her the world peace she asked for. after long, arduous hours of contemplation and asking myself the simple question “what do you get the woman who has everything?”, i decided that since i didn’t have a decent shoebox, i’d give her something practical. and deadly. and smells like bacon. she likes bacon.

and though it was a few days late, we were able to go out for dinner and a movie the following weekend. Star Trek was viewed, and enjoyed. but all this was a month ago. i’ve been pretty lax on everything, as you might have noticed. my stepmoms birthday was a week before Loopys, and her present is sitting in my car trunk. my fathers borthday is next week, so maybe they’ll both get gifts then?

from june:

not helping this month already is a jury duty summons. this coming monday, i get to find out if i’m trapped for no money in a courthouse. yay for voting! talking about it with Dick, and we wonder just how many of the people being summoned for jury duty voted democrat. i’m paranoid enough to think that oklahoma would pull something like that.

it seems like summer is turning out to be the season that old friends come back to visit. been contacted by a few people long out of touch to reconnect. it feels weird. like maybe the reason there was a breakdown in communication was because we all started speaking different languages, so to speak. guess that tends to happen with time anyway, to everyone. i wonder if these things happen because you need them to, the paranoid option of collusion, or maybe its just random ghosts paying visits.

the visits did spark my inspiration to write a little bit again. not necessarily here, but privately. always a welcome time. i’ve felt fairly uninspired to pick up a pen or a keyboard lately. and its not that the newer bits are anything but what could be described as morose, but it’s something.

the birthday blues are close to starting again, as i venture deeper into my 30’s. bound to happen, always does around the annual date of my spawning. least i don’t own a blacklight anymore. still have my first, last and always cd around though….

there are places inside a person that when unlocked, let out heat and let in cold. the merging of both the hot and cold fronts produce an occluded front. the resulting phenomena is occasionally precipitation.

had a trying week or two here. not really anything external, but i’ve felt pretty three-mile islandy for a little while. fairly uncontrollable swells of emotion stemming from strange dreams and memories related to. i think it was triggered by something i read, someone lamenting a loss of a friend. because i lack the capacity not to, i empathized far too much and dragged myself into a swell of rememberances. nothing i’d volunteer to elaborate on, but simply me trying to be somewhat cynical and flippant about someone elses laments, and in the end being stung by the same sad bee.

past that, one of Loops cats got extremely sick. the 14 y/o cat had decided that she was no longer interested in food. or moving around, or lifting her head. all bad things considering that she’s the active cat and the one that serves as a secondary alarm clock. it was a long saturday before we could get to the vet, it was breaking my heart to see Loops so devastated and the cat so ill, but it got easier after that. a little medicine and some time has proven wonders, as the cat is almost back to normal. she’s just been alot more quiet (not complaining one bit).

i got way too excited and emotional over a trailer for the Where the Wild Things Are movie. not sure what combination of the music and images struck a chord, but i got a little weepy. i’ll only partially admit to liking the arcade fire, but the song fits perfectly, and it only takes about a minute and ten seconds to get me welling up. every time. damn you, Spike Jonze.

trailer

guess it’s been awhile, but other, happier things have happened recently also. i took a week off of work to run down to Austin with Dick and Dickless (cornholers). Dick was celebrating a birthday, and Maynard from Tool was signing some wine bottles, so why not trek the lone star?

the wine signing was primarily why we went, dickless being a recent (last couple years or so) tool convert. it took the greater part of one of our days, from waking and getting line slips to standing in line with a multitude of ’special-needs’ kids. i was pretty shocked that there were so many people there for a friggin’ wine signing, and i’m sure the grocery stores regular patrons felt the same way. the looks on the faces said it all. i could hear the inner-gears grinding at the sight of all the collars and pirate hats (ok, so only one guy was in pirate regalia). it didn’t help that it was pushing 90 degrees, and we were lined like cattle into pens. i think people would pretty much need a nice bottle of hooch after said experience.

so later that night we celebrated a birthday at a blues club on 6th street. Dick, not being a drinker at all, surprisingly tallied 6 rum & cokes (but was hammered after 2). at seperate points during the night, he ingested some bar cupcake and danced in the middle of the bar with the singer of a band (and an admitted chubby. his, not the singers. she didn’t have a penis as far as i know). he and i had enough in the way of libations, to be very annoying on the drive back to the hotel. it was great.

also had a chance to sit down for lunch with Katty BoHo, and meet the new member of her brood. was nice catching up with Katty after what, 6 years? quite some time. and while i wasn’t able to meet child #1, young master Q was at school, i was able to meet the queen of the giant babies. adorable to say the least, and echoed by every visitor, every 5 minutes at the table.

after we came back, i waited a couple days and both Loops and I got new phones. thank server. settled on a Blackberry that i had fun playing with. she settled for some touch-screen number that could probably launch nukes if she so pleased. i spent the first night trying not to hump my new toy, but was up half the night doing dumb things like making my own ringtones for it.

i find it pretty amusing that people locally are shitting their pants over the way the country is going at the moment (while still being somewhat scared for how far things will fall). oklahoma is one of the most recession-proof states in the country, and now that tough times are making their way inward, people are preparing for armageddon. god forbid we feel the pinch the rest of the country has been dealing with for the last year or two. of course, if you ask, it’s all the new presidents fault. in one month he managed to screw everything up and spend all the money we had earmarked for cases of natty light. you wouldn’t think that in 2009 you’d still be hearing the ‘N’ word ad nauseum even in okietown, guess that’s what i get for trying to think. warn me against doing so in the future, please. have i mentioned that i hate people lately?

speaking hate and people, the old guy at work recently got a new cell. he was jazzed because it had a camera with zoom, and other amenities. it wasn’t until later that i found out why he was so happy. a few days after he showed me the phone, he showed me the first picture he took with it. it was a picture of some womans gentials. and it was a real picture, not a picture he took of a picture. and i didn’t even know he had a woman. later, in relaying the story, my boss and i were having a good laugh. she knew something about a girlfriend, but didn’t say. all she asked me was how old she was. i said something to the extent of “it was a picture of her snatch, how am i supposed to know? i didn’t count the rings”. it pretty much ended the conversation with a solid five minutes of laughing.

and more work. we have an independant third party inventory dork visiting every so often. i refer to him as ‘the weirdo’ or ‘the 45 year old virgin guy’. he’s just plain creepy. he always talks to himself, but not to anyone else. i’ve mentioned to more than one co-worker that he’s either a child molester or a big giant virgin. maybe he’s one of those guys who writes stalker fanletters to celebrities. i can see that. he’s always in the way, and the last time i saw him, he had his hair slicked back whilst unshaven. he looked like a fat chris lambert from highlander. not sure why he went the extra mile and slicked back his hair, but just have to assume he was trying to impress someone. he might have to hide his sailor moon fanfics first though, if he wants to lure some unsuspecting trim back to the batcave to rape and dismember.

i saw an eight year old counting calories on a candy package recently. her mother was next to her, telling her to stop it, and that it didn’t matter. it blows my mind that an eight year old would even consider something like that in something more than just a passing, idiotic thought. it’s not like she was pushing 500lbs at eight. this was a skinny little girl, who’s more than likely destined to sing ‘Rainy Days and Mondays’ at a child beauty pageant before she’ 12.

also lastly, because i’m a psycho, i’ve been super worried about diabetes lately. it seems like too many advertisments for diabetes have been attacking my senses the last month or so. it doesn’t help that i’m fat and my feet hurt. two things not mutually exclusive given that i stand for 10 hours a day i know, but in my brain, it doesnt’ take much. i could tie two things way more apart than those together to convince myself. the force is strong with my neurosis. and of course i’m still short of a straightjacket away from making me eat correctly. but… he’s watching me, i know it.

and more beads (if you know what i’m saying)

so i’m looking at new phones. the contract Loops and I have expires soon, and seeing as how my phone was destroyed in a coffee accident, i’ve been ready for one for about a month and a half (or year). if anyone has any suggestions, comments about any phones, drop a note. we use sprint, and it’s a bonus if it can withstand large amount of water and/or coffee. right now, looking at the lg lotus, but i have a month to decide…

let’s see, what else has happened lately? my sister had a birthday recently. to celebrate, the fam got together at my jesus freak aunt’s residence. it was mostly enjoyable, save for a 10 minute period where my aunt insisted on playing a song that reminded her of my sister. granted, my sister has had some shady moments in her past that she’s gotten over and moved away from. everyone has things they’ve done that they’re not proud of. the words to this song so infuriated me that i had to leave the room and vent in private. the lyrics alluded to the singer being an addict and a whore before finding jesus. my sister was and is neither, and if it was even halfway acceptable to slap an old woman in her own house, i’d throw myself a fucking parade.

have i mentioned lately that i hate people? i’ve had a bit of a short fuse lately around other people. it’s like i’m covered in buttons that, when pushed, annoy the shit out of me and everyone wants a damned hug. also, what the hell is with the ed hardy clothes? i’m not sure how widespread this trend is, but its single handedly warming up my “stabbin’ arm”. hell, its oklahoma here, this trend may have run its course everywhere else. if it hasn’t, someone please kill the head so the body will die. please?

and speaking of killing the head. yon Dr. Booty (long time no hear) has been having a semi-eventful existence since moving away. sepereated and divorced from his wife, went batshit crazy and tried suicide. spent most of the last year or two in and out of mental institutions and being homeless. he got a goat’s head pentagram tattoo on his arm. he’d found and lost jesus, told me recently that he’s tired of taking medication, and that he just won’t anymore. i reminded him that our good friend J9 decided the same thing, and look how that turned out. for those of you not in the know, J9 committed suicide a few years back. hopefully, the message got through. I’d rather not have another crazy, dead friend. (r.i.p. Jeff)

in much happier news, the Boho birthed her second child recently. 11 lbs 12 oz.? dear lord Katty. i hope you went cesarian, because if you didn’t, someone’s going to have to call all the king’s horses and all the king’s men just to put your no-no area back together again. best wishes to be and stay healthy and happy with your new bundle of joy. ok, i made a phone call. I had to know for sure. it was a natural childbirth. egads, EVEN MY VAGINA ACHES.